Below is an excerpt from a devotional called New Morning Mercies by Paul Tripp. A perspective that helps weary pilgrims understand and hang on to the author of their faith.
The cross is evidence that in the hands of the Redeemer, moments of apparent defeat become wonderful moments of grace and victory.
At the center of a biblical worldview is this radical recognition—the most horrible thing that ever happened was the most wonderful thing that ever happened. Consider the cross of Jesus Christ. Could it be possible for something to happen that was more terrible than this? Could any injustice be greater? Could any loss be more painful? Could any suffering be worse?
The only man who ever lived a life that was perfect in every way possible, who gave his life for the sake of many, and who willingly suffered from birth to death in loyalty to his calling was cruelly and publicly murdered in the most vicious of ways.
How could it happen that the Son of Man could die? How could it be that men could capture and torture the Messiah?
Was this not the end of everything good, true, and beautiful? If this could happen, is there any hope for the world? Well, the answer is yes. There is hope! The cross was not the end of the story!
This terrible moment of injustice was at the very same time a moment of amazing grace. This moment of extreme suffering guaranteed that suffering would end one day, once and for all.
This moment of sadness welcomed us to eternal joy of heart and life. The capture and death of Christ purchased for us life and freedom.
The very worst thing that could happen was at the very same time the very best thing that could happen. Only God is able to do such a thing.
The same God who planned that the worst thing would be the best thing is your Father. He rules over every moment in your life, and in powerful grace he is able to do for you just what he did in redemptive history.
He takes the disasters in your life and makes them tools of redemption. He takes your failure and employs it as a tool of grace. He uses the “death” of the fallen world to motivate you to reach out for life.
The hardest things in your life become the sweetest tools of grace in his wise and loving hands.
So be careful how you make sense of your life. What looks like a disaster may in fact be grace. What looks like the end may be the beginning. What looks hopeless may be God’s instrument to give you real and lasting hope. Your Father is committed to taking what seems so bad and turning it into something that is very, very good.